Archive for September, 2013

Stuck in an Argument? Check Out the Balcony View. A Massachusetts Divorce Mediation Tip

Stuck in an Argument? Check Out the Balcony View. A Massachusetts Divorce Mediation Tip

Ever get so frustrated in a disagreement because you just know that you are right? That your point of view seems so crystal clear? Of course, you have. I certainly have! It feels good to stick to your guns. Doing so may even occasionally work in your favor. Most of the time however the tension Continue Reading »

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Mediation For Divorce In Mass: Be Warned Against Destructive Divorce Marketing!

Mediation For Divorce In Mass: Be Warned Against Destructive Divorce Marketing!

While I was at the gym today listening to my favorite sports radio station I heard a commercial about divorce in Massachusetts. It made me stop in my tracks. Literally. I mean it. I must have looked ridiculous. I just stood where I was listening to my headphones. The advertiser, a local law group, directed Continue Reading »

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Decision Making That Will Stick: Mediation Examples You Can Learn From

Decision Making That Will Stick: Mediation Examples You Can Learn From

I hear “I should…” all the time. General Life Examples of I Should Decision Making: I should go to the gym…(but watches more TV instead) I should go on a diet…(but digs in to her ice cream instead) I should save more money…(but shops online instead) I should call her and mend fences…(but holds the Continue Reading »

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Family Communication, Parenting Help, and How to Stay Calm: Lessons Learned From a Sobbing Hysterical Tantrumming 6 Year Old

Family Communication, Parenting Help, and How to Stay Calm: Lessons Learned From a Sobbing Hysterical Tantrumming 6 Year Old

A “Hysterical” Miscommunication A few weeks ago my son had an out of the ordinary temper tantrum – OK, he was flipping out — during a sleepover with his grandparents. They were calling me, I was calling them, and all the while he is yelling and crying in the background. It was stressful all around Continue Reading »

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Dealing With Marriage Communication and Relationship Issues? Stay Out of the Weeds

Dealing With Marriage Communication and Relationship Issues? Stay Out of the Weeds

It is often said that the “devil is in the details” and certainly this is often sage communication advice. Other times, especially during arguments, divorce mediation, marriage communication, and conflict in general, I would argue that the “devil IS the details.” Devilish Hypocrisy Consider these points of conflict that I have recently heard during mediations: Continue Reading »

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